It all started- you have started developing feelings for a boy, you fell in love with him almost that you take him seriously. You’ve dated him a couple of times, yet there seems to be some barrier between you guys that hold you back from even kissing.
Look here, in relationship there is nothing like you first me second thing. But should you experience some pressure to make the first move to be kissed, here are some tips to encourage your guy to kiss you on a date:
He might well be holding for the fear of rejection he was harboring, so look approachable on the date because he needs to understand that you want a kiss from him. Let him feel comfortable yet confident to take charge. He can by gathering courage, only if you can make him feel at ease.
Then, if you should’ve any touch barriers break them. Gentle touches off and on during a chat should work. However, don’t hint him too direct. Let it be a quick one, but if he asks for hold his arm for long (only if he’s willing). Touch strengthens the intimacy factor. And if your guy takes that initiative encourage him to touch you, prolong by reading the palm lines or comparing finger and nail sizes.
A nervous man blabbers too much and if he should be talking excess put a finger on his lips as though you want him to stop; most times a boy should initiate one kiss at this gesture, at least on the fingers; encourage the guy.
Maintain eye contact as he talks and gaze at his lips once a while (just those quicky ones). This should definitely hint the guy that you are looking forward to kissing him. He will initiate one.
Move close to him and break the distance barrier. If you should be sitting in a park say its cold and you need some warmth, and if it’s at home on the pretext of showing some pictures or your photos. Once you feel its right, take your face close to his and look into eyes, maybe you can even move further to kiss him. He will take the hint and will attempt to kiss you.
First kiss need not always be a success
If your first kiss wasn’t as expected, don’t take it too serious and make a big deal of it; good relationships sometimes start with disastrous beginnings. Look for more opportunities to meet in privacy and you can enjoy better kisses. Remember each experience is unique, nothing like the best kiss on earth.