You have just lost your job? That is the most devastating thing that had happened to your life lately. Your world might just crumble and you are definitely in a bad shape. You might find it very unusual to think about things like dating during these tough times.
But honestly don’t you think you need a break? You certainly need one and some emotional support to beat the blues of joblessness? Don’t get into a groove and sulk further that could make the situation worse. For the time being, lift your spirits and get on with life. Losing a job is not what you will have liked, but it is also not the end of your world; it is a phase that might take sometime to get back to normal.
Disclose about your unemployment
It is a tough task to tell your date that you are no more employed. It is a worst thing to say; you ego is hurt and then there is a sense of shame and strong financial insecurity. But this situation is not only yours there are thousands who have lost their job and are facing the same problem. It is better to inform your date that you have lost the job. She will appreciate your honesty and the relationship might get stronger and turn out to be a more meaningful one rather than just a hang out.
Plan your date
Once your date is aware of your situation, it becomes easier for you to decide on an inexpensive date without being conscious of the fact that you are jobless. Your date will understand your financial status and that will make it less embarrassing. So go ahead and plan a date that fits your budget, look out for cheap movie or a theatre tickets, go on a picnic or simply spend some quality time in a park or a museum.
Online dating
If you are still coming to terms with the universal truth of unemployment- take your time. Try online dating, you can meet someone who is in a similar situation and is more than willing to talk to you that can give some solace. There is no pressure of taking her out or spending the money in such difficult times. Go ahead and chill.
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