A relationship seems so rosy and special in love; the whole world around you looks so perfect-an absolute bliss. The feeling of being in love and in reciprocation receiving more is heavenly.
But any relation cannot sustain the same peace and harmony eternally because human relations are rather very complex in nature. And to gain a complete control in a relationship requires the process of working it out at every stage. Especially if you have had a fight with your partner, boyfriend or husband, it could set the feeling of insecurity and if the reason for the tussle is you, then things might just seem tougher to resolve.
Put your ego into the litter bin
Why should I say sorry? That definitely does not work and the reason for your fight could be trivial or serious or either of you might be responsible for the mishap. Just leave the ‘me’ factor and remember the word ‘us’ then that is half-job done. Do not be your stubborn self and inflate your ego, because the sooner the message of sorry reaches your partner the faster you’ll receive positive response.
Have an open mind
Don’t leave the fight unsolved without a discussion try and solve it at the earliest to clear all the misunderstanding at least it will save the matter from becoming more serious or complicated. And don’t leave the matter to time or develop an attitude of ‘it will settle down’, take charge and resolve the fight. Send in flowers or card with a personal message. He is just a call or a SMS away from you.
Have Patience
Don’t expect him to be in your arms reading your sorry messages. Give him space and time to clear his mind. Do not force yourself too much that can irritate him further more depending on the seriousness of your fight. And, for your information he also has an ego that will stop him from doing the right thing. Stay calm, he will certainly not be angry for too long right?
Say the magical words…
The magic of “I Love You” really does wonders; use creative ways to convey these three words that can cast a spell around him, and he might just realize what he is losing. Express your feelings in small ways, show that you care and prioritize your relationship, say sweet little nothings and see how he will be drawn to your simple and honest feelings.
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